tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4057261644338342219.post3644160852520363020..comments2023-07-28T09:15:33.442-06:00Comments on One mom two babies: Its okay to remember Emma or TyPokey Puppyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07328489333212802779noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4057261644338342219.post-62137019400919732282007-07-30T08:28:00.000-06:002007-07-30T08:28:00.000-06:00So sorry you had to go through that. Been through...So sorry you had to go through that. Been through a miscarriage and infertility myself :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4057261644338342219.post-65544911351732663752007-07-29T07:17:00.000-06:002007-07-29T07:17:00.000-06:00I'm glad you shared this story. I think it's healt...I'm glad you shared this story. I think it's healthy to give yourself that day to miss your baby. Like you said, it was real, no matter if it spent a day on this earth or not, it was real. I'm glad you remember. <BR/>Thanks for sharing!Tracy Rambles On And Onhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16928404796336909746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4057261644338342219.post-50226514125147120152007-07-27T16:09:00.000-06:002007-07-27T16:09:00.000-06:00Your experience and your pain is horrible - but wh...Your experience and your pain is horrible - but what a blessing you are to others like Laney.<BR/><BR/>I can't imagine what it's like to go through what you've described.Jensterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15639970448069931471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4057261644338342219.post-68204930074158331162007-07-27T13:12:00.000-06:002007-07-27T13:12:00.000-06:00Thanks for sharing this. I don't know what it's l...Thanks for sharing this. I don't know what it's like, but my best friend just lost her baby a few weeks ago. This helps me to understand some of what she's going through. <BR/><BR/>I'm so glad you've gotten to have two kids though.Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10780589302319316351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4057261644338342219.post-23381636910952160462007-07-27T08:44:00.000-06:002007-07-27T08:44:00.000-06:00((((((((Pokey Puppy)))))))))As Mrs. Jo says, I may...((((((((Pokey Puppy)))))))))<BR/><BR/>As Mrs. Jo says, I may not be able to *share* these feelings but I do know what a painful time this was for you both in the early years of marriage. My heart broke for you then and I do think of Emma and Tyler. It takes an amazing inner strength, I think, to be able to make it through such a thing, and I think taking time to mourn, remember and love as time goes on is completely normal and healthy. And turning to family and friends who will be there for you in these moments with everything they can is an important step in letting yourself heal.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4057261644338342219.post-27661087219785380622007-07-27T08:39:00.000-06:002007-07-27T08:39:00.000-06:00Pokey, I had no idea. I find out something new ab...Pokey, I had no idea. I find out something new about your life everyday. Thank you for sharing that story. Love you!Gypsy Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02255980791120712279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4057261644338342219.post-11876100776617084352007-07-27T06:25:00.000-06:002007-07-27T06:25:00.000-06:00thanks. our story starts out just like yours...end...thanks. <BR/><BR/>our story starts out just like yours...endo, lap, hurry & try...then it took several months...finally we were pregnant with Gage & everything went pretty well.<BR/><BR/>and now this---which I was totally not expecting. <BR/><BR/>So far, each day seems a bit easier than the day before.Lainey-Paneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07722187515774744428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4057261644338342219.post-36851817483010240572007-07-26T21:57:00.000-06:002007-07-26T21:57:00.000-06:00Children are such a blessing and the mysteries of ...Children are such a blessing and the mysteries of a woman's body are way beyond our mortal understanding. That a sparkle in your lover's eye every makes it to our nursing breast is beyond grace. I too have planned, and held my hand to my belly - but lost children that would never get any closer to my embrace. I too have not forgotten them, and like all who know this pain, never will. My best advice is to take the time to morn the loss, and feel it's depth. You will heal through the process of time, and you will become stronger.<BR/> Poke was given a gift I never knew. She was allowed the time for her body and this little child to become one. This little light became a part of her, one she will always carry in body and heart. That's a blessing in itself and a true miracle. I'm hoping heaven will allow a gathering of childless moms, and a time of silence when we are all allowed to light a candle high for each one given. The glow would fill the heavens. I'll be there with my three candles. Come stand near and we will embrace each other with love and understanding. Until then, remember to breath and feel your heart beating.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4057261644338342219.post-73444451548017522662007-07-26T21:37:00.000-06:002007-07-26T21:37:00.000-06:00Red...You know it is okay to feel and it is okay t...Red...<BR/>You know it is okay to feel and it is okay to remember...our babies were real, and people dont always get that. Its one of those things that is hard to share with someone unless they have gone through it themselves...and for those that havn't there is never the right thing to say just be there...just listen...and by all means give us a hug....Gigihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18003628811488568759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4057261644338342219.post-10649353933607351882007-07-26T21:10:00.000-06:002007-07-26T21:10:00.000-06:00As a mother and a friend ..your pain may not be sh...As a mother and a friend ..your pain may not be shared but understood. You were very strong through all that...and you continue to be strong. Letting yourself feel is the best way to go about it..Good for you! :)Mrs. Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12100842977488681404noreply@blogger.com