Saturday, July 7, 2007

Mr. No-Name....... So far

So. I've met a guy. Don't worry. S-L-O-W is the name of the game. I have not picked a "Blog Name " for him yet. We met by coincidence through a friend. I know what you are all thinking oh oh... rebound. But i don't know. It is really strange. From the moment i met him there was a strange "click" that i never knew was possible.

We are so alike but different as well. We often say the same thing at the same time. Have common interests. We both have kids. He is amazingly funny... I never knew i could laugh so much. And you know what... It feels AMAZING to be wanted in every way. Go figure huh! He makes me feel attractive, smart, beautiful, sexy, funny... and so much more.

He is so handsome, generous, laid back, hard worker, great dad, humble, grounded and genuine. He can cook, has owned houses, provides for his children above and beyond, has a great sense of style, and did i mention a great sense of humor. He looks adorable in his glasses. He has also been hurt by someone he though he loved. We understand each other in that way as well.

For those of you who have read my other posts you know how i feel about it... so no he has not meet my kids and wont meet Fred and Freida for some time.

I have not known him for too long... but it has still taken me awhile to write this. I have been worried what people would think. In fact only a couple people even have known about him. But you know what. I deserve to feel this happy. I deserve to be with a great guy. I am a grown woman who is intelligent enough to use her senses and follow her heart at the same time.

4 comments:

Tracy said...

I'm so happy for you! And you're right, you do deserve to have someone like that in your life! You shouldn't feel ashamed about that at all. Good Luck!

Jenster said...

Part of me feels like I should be taking on my mama persona and telling you not to rush into anything. But that's only a very small, much too logical part of me. (I don't think I have a very large logical part. lol)

The rest of me (and there's a whole lot of "rest" of me) is thinking this is great. You're obviously a smart girl and know to proceed with caution, i.e., not letting him around the kids yet. But I saw the good and potential in my husband right away and we've been happily, nay, blissfully (I read too much) married for over 19 years. So it doesn't always take a long time to figure someone out. Especially if they're honest and open.

So, with all that garbledy gook out of the way, I think you should enjoy this new "relationship"! And tell us more about it as it unfolds. LOL

Laura said...

Good for you. I think it takes a lot of courage to get out there and start dating again. I hope it all works out.

Pokey Puppy said...

oh you guys crack me up.. thank so much for the great coments... jenster dont worry... i have that mama persona in my head!! luckily its also little enough to let me live life as well ;-)